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	<title>Autobiography of a Paradox &#187; Life and such&#8230;</title>
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	<description>I don't do politics. I play chess....</description>
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		<title>Golden Gate Renaissance Faire - This WEEKEND!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 20:59:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[If you havenít made plans for this weekend yet, donít forget, Golden Gate Renaissance faire is coming back to San Francisco. August 16th and 17th travel to Shakespeareís  England and see the playwright musing over his new play in the shire filled with people resembling the beloved characters of his writings. Over 900 costumed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you havenít made plans for this weekend yet, donít forget, Golden Gate Renaissance faire is coming back to San Francisco. August 16th and 17th travel to Shakespeareís  England and see the playwright musing over his new play in the shire filled with people resembling the beloved characters of his writings. Over 900 costumed entertainers and over 100 shopkeepers  and artisans will add to the ambience of the Faire taking you back in time to a world of kings and queens, knights and damsels. sword fighters, magicians and jesters.</p>
<p>Weekendís highlight will be the Knights of Avalon, a nationally acclaimed full contact jousting troupe. Combining the elements of spontaneity, action, and humor, the Knights of Avalon will present a show that will keep the audience enthralled and coming back for more. Their armor is real, the lances a real and the hits will will be real as well!  The onlookers will be astounded by the action of the hard-hitting lance-splitting jousting and the humorous interplay. Hundreds of pounds of man, horse and metal will collide and do battle right before your eyes.</p>
<p>Check out the website www.sffaire.com for more info and discount coupons.</p>
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		<title>Dark Knight - Triumphant last hurrah for Ledger</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 02:29:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I went to see Dark Knight yesterday and am craving a fix for another joker performance. From the opening scene I was lost in the fantasy world and taken on a wild ride.
&#8220;The Dark Knight&#8221; rides on Ledger&#8217;s performance as the Joker. He did not disappoint. We are used to the Devil having all the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went to see Dark Knight yesterday and am craving a fix for another joker performance. From the opening scene I was lost in the fantasy world and taken on a wild ride.</p>
<p>&#8220;The Dark Knight&#8221; rides on Ledger&#8217;s performance as the Joker. He did not disappoint. We are used to the Devil having all the best tunes, but Ledger&#8217;s performance amounts to an aria of enigmatic menace. There&#8217;s the chalky face with its charcoal eyes, obscenely smudged kisser and an untamed tongue that he can scarcely keep in his mouth. Further creepiness comes from his hunched posture and scuttling, dance-like movements. When he finally manages to fell Batman, he is beside himself with glee - he hops up and down, spitting and jabbering, too overjoyed to inflict much damage.</p>
<p>He elevates his character beyond a good comic book villain to a great movie villain. Ledger’s acting invokes deep pain even if the stories he tells of his past keep changing. The Joker ceases to be a grinning cartoon and returns to his noir roots as serial killer who questions whether ideas like morality and order really exist.</p>
<p>The Dark Knight challenges the typical comic book plot. Seriously, how many comic book villains threaten to kill people for power or money? Almost all of them have a goal. The Joker’s simply wants to turn society insane and have loads of fun doing it.</p>
<p>Clearly, the late Heath Ledger as the Joker steals the show. Ledger’s performance is absolutely original, captivating, and as it happens, poignant. After a long time, then, here’s a must-experience.</p>
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		<title>Hatari Afghans - Buyer Beware</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 07:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Life and such...]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Afghan hound]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[A few months ago I decided that I wanted a dog. I decided on an Afghan Hound. The breed is stunning, their temperament matches mine. I decided to get a rescue young adult. I contacted AHCA for a dog, but they did not have one available. But Debbie White, owner of Hatari Afghans (http://hatari-afghans.com), a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few months ago I decided that I wanted a dog. I decided on an Afghan Hound. The breed is stunning, their temperament matches mine. I decided to get a rescue young adult. I contacted AHCA for a dog, but they did not have one available. But Debbie White, owner of Hatari Afghans (http://hatari-afghans.com), a rescue rep and Evangers rep from Texas had a young adult ready for adoption. Debbie sounded like she cared about her dogs, was knowledgeable and professional. I bit and entered into a contract with her.  TRUSTING HER WAS MY GREATEST MISTAKE.</p>
<p>I started talking to her in mid May with the understanding that she will send me the puppy after my event in Tahoe, mid June. She got the money, I did not get the dog. She charged me $700 for his adoption, $400 for flight, $200 for a kennel, $100 for health certificates. Thatís $1400. AGAIN, she got the money, I never got the dog. First he needed grooming, then he got into fire ants, then Debbie got busy, then, well, something else happened. Delay turned into another delay and finally ended in silence as Debbie stopped communicating with me completely.  I reported her to AHCA. It took a call from AHCA director Barb Hastings for Debbie to actually email me back, letting me know that she will return my money. But guess what! Though she promised the refund, she never sent it.</p>
<p>I was made aware that she is helping with the pretty bad &#8220;puppy mill&#8221; situation in New Mexico. But if this is the way she treats people, I wonder how she treats her dogs. For example, she mentioned that the dog I was supposed to have gotten was house trained. Then she let it slip that he only lives outside. Afghans need constant care and companionship. If she did not clean him take care of him, how much socialization has he gotten? And other dogs in her possession? For Afghans that&#8217;s imperative. On the website she lists a few more pups for adoption. These are just from her own breeding. And now with the other pups in he possession, if she has no time for her own dogs, how will she be able to handle others? I think that with her bubbly personality she taking people and the dogs in her possession for a ride!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t want other people to go through this sort of experience. Getting an animal is an emotional experience. I prepped for this dog. Debbie works for Evangers Dog Food. I purchased the food she suggested. I got a whole bunch of toys, I prepped the house for the animal only to get suckered in and screwed. Please pass this along to anyone who is thinking of purchasing an Afghan / getting one from a rescue. Hatari Afghans is a scam. Debbie White and her operation should be closed. She is not to be trusted and should be avoided at all costs.</p>
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		<title>Stunning Wedding Flowers&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://www.miernik.com/archives/126</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 04:29:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[bridal]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[My mom has been in the floral business for almost 30 years. She&#8217;s won numerous accolades for her work. Now she has decided to take her work private and cater exclusively to brides in the bay area with her selection of exquisite floral designs and accessories in any combination, color or theme. From traditional elegance [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mom has been in the floral business for almost 30 years. She&#8217;s won numerous accolades for her work. Now she has decided to take her work private and cater exclusively to brides in the bay area with her selection of exquisite floral designs and accessories in any combination, color or theme. From traditional elegance to minimalist modern or bright and exotic, she knows that the flower choices reveal a lot about personality. Stylish floral arrangements guarantee a gorgeous celebration. She hopes to create romantic atmosphere for the exchange of vows with elegant floral ideas. And whether a bride plans to throw it to her bridesmaids or preserve it forever, she hopes make sure the bouquet says it all, beautifully.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.miernik.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/14.jpeg'><img src="http://miernik.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/14-300x269.jpg" alt="" title="wedding " width="300" height="269" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-122" /></a></p>
<p>Check out samples of past work at flickr - <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/stunningweddingflowers/">http://www.flickr.com/photos/stunningweddingflowers/</a>&#8230; If you know someone who is need perfect flowers for that most important day&#8230; pass on her info&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Polish Greyhound</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 22:54:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The breed is likely to originate from the ancient Asian Saluki Greyhound, however, its final appearance is an outcome of many crosses of greyhound types found in the Polish territory. The oldest records on the greyhounds living in the territory of Poland date back to Gall Anonim&#8217;s Kroniki (Chronicles) of the 12th century, where they are mentioned as [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The breed is likely to originate from the ancient Asian Saluki Greyhound, however, its final appearance is an outcome of many crosses of greyhound types found in the Polish territory. The oldest records on the greyhounds living in the territory of Poland date back to <strong>Gall Anonim</strong>&#8217;s <em>Kroniki</em> (Chronicles) of the 12th century, where they are mentioned as a breed kept at the royal court. One cannot be sure, though, if these were the Polish greyhounds. In the Poland of the 14th century, hunting with greyhounds was a quite popular activity. In <em>Ksiegi o gospodarstwie</em> (Books on farming) by <strong>Piotr Crescentyn</strong> published in 1549, a woodcut of a dog resembling a Polish greyhound was included. In the years to follow, the dogs were frequently described but the first full characteristic of the breed was provided by <strong>Anzelm Gostomski</strong> in his book <em>Gospodarstwo Jezdeckie, Strzelcze i Mysliwcze</em> (A Horse Riding, Shooting and Hunting Farm) published in 1690. The first description of a hunt with Polish greyhounds is included in <em>Myslistwo z ogary</em> (Hunting with Ogars) published in 1618 by count <strong>Jan Ostror?g</strong>. Shorthaired greyhounds are also mentioned by<strong> Jan Chryzostom Pasek</strong> (1636 - 1701) in his <em>Pamietniki</em> (Memoirs). As the documents show, the dogs of this breed were in the possession of <strong>Grand Duke Nicholas Nikolayevich</strong>, too. In the hunting literature of the 19th century, the name of &#8221; the Polish greyhound&#8221; or &#8220;our greyhound&#8221; or &#8221; a common greyhound&#8221; is frequently mentioned. The dog was supposed to be larger, stronger and with slightly longer hair than the English Greyhound. The Polish greyhound was used to hunt different game, mainly hare but also foxes, wolves and even deer. When hunting, the old time hunters would often apply the so called &#8220;leash&#8221; i.e. two or three cooperating greyhounds on the move. A detailed description of the Polish greyhound including information on its upbringing, training for hunting, hunting methods as well as the dog&#8217;s picture can be found in a Warsaw magazine <em>Sylwan</em> (1823/2). </p>
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		<title>Healing&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.miernik.com/archives/119</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 16:49:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[There comes a time when you must stand alone. You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams. You must be willing to make sacrifices. You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved. Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged. There [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There comes a time when you must stand alone. You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams. You must be willing to make sacrifices. You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved. Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged. There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities. Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better. Be confident enough that you won&#8217;t settle for a compromise just to get by. Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life. Don&#8217;t stand in someone else&#8217;s shadow when it&#8217;s your sunlight that should lead the way. <span id="more-119"></span></p>
<p>It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth. Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships we entered, stayed in, or ended taught us necessary lessons.</p>
<p>Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.  If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.</p>
<p>Some of us have emerged from the most painful circumstances with strong insights about who we are and what we want. The process may have been painful, results important. Our mistakes? Necessary. Our frustrations, failures, and sometimes stumbling attempts at growth and progress? Necessary too. Each step of the way, we learned. We went through exactly the experiences we need to, to become who we are today. Each step of the way, we progress. Is our past a mistake? No. The only mistake we can make is mistaking that for the truth.</p>
<p>Work hard at what you like to do and try to overcome all obstacles. Laugh at your mistakes and praise yourself for learning from them. Pick some flowers and appreciate the beauty of nature. Say hello to strangers and enjoy the people you know. Don&#8217;t be afraid to show your emotions;  laughing and crying can make you feel better. Love your friends and family with your entire being. They are the most important part of your life. Feel the calmness on a quiet sunny day. Find a rainbow and live your world of dreams. Always remember life is better than it seems.</p>
<p>Today, God, help me let go of negative thoughts I may be harboring about my past circumstances or relationships. I can accept, with gratitude, all that has brought me to today.</p>
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		<title>Drained…</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 05:27:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[In a world so cold as ice where a soul can’t find peace
I’m trapped in a nightmare of regret
Images of the past linger on, shackling me to the reality
Faith.. for what?
Time wasted cannot be retrieved…
Happiness?! &#8230; fleeting, sweet sorrow remains
Loneliness, depravation is now sweet suffering
Pain becomes relief and a reminder of life.
Death - a relief
 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a world so cold as ice where a soul can’t find peace<br />
I’m trapped in a nightmare of regret<br />
Images of the past linger on, shackling me to the reality<br />
Faith.. for what?<br />
Time wasted cannot be retrieved…<br />
Happiness?! &#8230; fleeting, sweet sorrow remains<br />
Loneliness, depravation is now sweet suffering<br />
Pain becomes relief and a reminder of life.<br />
Death - a relief<br />
 &#8212; miernik 2008</p>
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		<title>Fire &#038; Ice&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.miernik.com/archives/113</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 05:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I&#8217;ve tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some say the world will end in fire,<br />
Some say in ice.<br />
From what I&#8217;ve tasted of desire<br />
I hold with those who favor fire.<br />
But if it had to perish twice,<br />
I think I know enough of hate<br />
To say that for destruction ice<br />
Is also great<br />
And would suffice.</p>
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		<title>Zosia&#8217;s Baptism&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.miernik.com/archives/112</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2008 05:04:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[June 13th, 2008. My youngest niece, Zosia Miernik was baptized at St. Albert&#8217;s Church in San Jose. It was a joyous occasion for the whole family. Loves to my little niece&#8230;

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>June 13th, 2008. My youngest niece, Zosia Miernik was baptized at St. Albert&#8217;s Church in San Jose. It was a joyous occasion for the whole family. Loves to my little niece&#8230;</p>
<p><a href='http://www.miernik.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/2701577739_bc4bef6592.jpg'><img src="http://miernik.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/2701577739_bc4bef6592-199x300.jpg" alt="Holly Water" title="2701577739_bc4bef6592" width="199" height="300" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-132" /></a></p>
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		<title>Bill and Marti - breaking it off&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 19:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marti Miernik</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Before rumor mill gets out of hand, I thought I&#8217;d make this announcement. Bill and I have broken off our relationship just a week before Valhalla. We wanted to keep it quiet through the run of the show. No point of stirring up an already rather restless event.
After eight years we&#8217;ve come to realization that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Before rumor mill gets out of hand, I thought I&#8217;d make this announcement. Bill and I have broken off our relationship just a week before Valhalla. We wanted to keep it quiet through the run of the show. No point of stirring up an already rather restless event.</p>
<p>After eight years we&#8217;ve come to realization that our friendship, no matter how fervent, is just not enough to keep this relationship moving forward. Because we do care about each other, we both need to find our own happiness and answers to what we need / want, on our own.</p>
<p>The decision to break up was mutual. This relationship has always first and foremost been based on friendship. I think that&#8217;s why we&#8217;ve been able to hold to each other for such a long time, no matter the baggage, blatant interferences from other people, or things that drove us crazy about each other.</p>
<p>So as friends and business partners we&#8217;re moving forward. And I would not suggest that people not try to break that part up. Yes, Ren Prod is safe in Bill, Marti and Rellie trio. Anyhow&#8230; that&#8217;s about it&#8230; go, continue having fun&#8230;</p>
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